Wich IDE is the best, is a matter everybody should look into for him of herself. In the following post comes my experiences, but they could differ to your own feelings. I will take a couple of points and highlight them where I have found differences.
To situate: I use netbeans by default and for school (university ghent). I (have) use(d) eclipse for my studentjob with technicolor. My expecience with eclipse is only in java, where in netbeans I also have used php.